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30-35,
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writes:Well, my "love life" was normal until my 3 year relationship with my long time boyfriend ended. I didnt think it would be hard to find another good guy, me and my boyfriend had broken up because things just weren't working out.But, he was a good guy and he did treat me right, but we didnt have the same feelings for each other.So To The Point:So it was another year in school, Single for the first time ,in a long time. There was a very attractive guy in my Art class, me and this guy had been flirting since my Freshman year,{alot of eye contact and smiling}he was 2 years older than me, and was a Senior.I didnt think he still liked me.WRONG. But he had a girlfriend already, this was his second girlfriend and he was still flirting with me.To make a long story short.We were put in a group together by the teacher,to work on a painting.We started talking and turns out he knew a few things about me,and my family and everything. The second time he was in the group, he remember things I was talking about the last time, he asked where I lived and could he come over then. The third time,we were in the group, he started acting rude. Very rude. He was talking over me, and just pissing me off. He noticed I was getting mad, and apologized, because that is how he jokes with people. Honestly..I was still pissed off but got over it.When he realized I was never going to "give it up". He also got jealous when I was talking to another dude in class. One day, I was sitting across the art room,and kept looking at me, like he was "mentally undressing" me I looked at him back, but he never turned away he just kept staring at me, with sexually eyes. Soon, I felt like he has lost respect for me, even though I NEVER slept with him or anything, When I look back on that situation now, I think that he put some kind of bet on me, because his friend has approached me,and kept on coming on to me in the wrong way, and saying Sexually things to me.He also mention how he like fooling with "younger girls" because they were easier to get with on the side.But Did he(not his friend, him) ever really like me or did he just want to sleep with me?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (8 May 2009):
 hun he never really liked you.
he was a complete a hole if you ask me.
he has no respect for women thinking he is gods gift when i bet he isn't
he just wanted to use you for his own needs and then dump you like a tissue in the bin.
better off without that there.
good for you for not stooping that low to sleep with him!!
*applause* to you i reckon.
you deserve so much better than that he may have known that you were a vulnerable girl because of your break up after 3 years and thought he had a chance to get what he wanted from you and leave you.
Don't ever go as low as a guy would to get you into bed don't stoop to go along with it even if they try and charm you it's not worth it.
save it for when you know HE is worth it.
Hope this helps hun.
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