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writes:I Had been in a relationship with this really nice lad for 4 months. about a week ago he went onto my facebook account and read some emails i had been sended another lad. He accused me of cheating on him with this other lad, although i would never dream of that. We talked about it and he said he was going to try and forget everything. a few days later he said he was having thoughts of leaving me because of this situation, but again we talked and everything was fine. we were on the way u again. a couple of days later he ended it out of the blue,saying it wasnt working because he kept thinking about these emails. i was devastated. that night we met and talked about how i felt, he said his decison was final and we would not get together again. he got quite emotional about it, as he saw the state i was in. however he asked me for a kiss before he left, but i wanted to know why, was he trying to hurt me even more. since then 2 days have passed and i havent slept or eaten properly and am finding it hard to keep it together. yet he is going out having a good time, and i think he is trying it on with my best mate. i need help moving on, because i cant take this anymore.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 You're better off without him. Not only did he snoop into your facebook, dump you for writing some friendly emails (I am assuming there was nothing going on in these emails of course) - he does all this after knowing you just 4 MONTHS?
Be glad he showed his true colors early. What a jerk.
In the meantime, lean on your friends and family. Write him a heartfelt letter and then rip it up. Take time out to concentrate on yourself. Cry, punch pillows, whatever makes you feel better. Don't call him. Don't contact him.
It will get a little better each day. *hug*
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (14 June 2009):
Hey.. Im no stranger to heartbreak.. So take my advice.. Apparently this guy is insecure and thinks your a cheater.. And if your in a relationship .. You really shouldn't be talking to other guys.. That upsets my boyfriend too.. And him and I have been togther for 1 year and 2 months so I know the deal.. And another thing don't wrap yourself up in a relationship .. Be careful with your heart... best of luck
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