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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Man, I haven't been with a women in ten years. I've moved to house to house at least three times in those ten years. I spend most of my time looking for full time work; and hanging with friends; but no girlfriend or Women. I'm African American and live in a mixed community; but mainly live around white people. I'm 5'9", 180lbs,and would love to meet any female my age or younger or more mature. It's like this; every female I see in the Plainfield,IL area is pretty much too young. I've tried internet dating but came up with gold diggers. The part of Plainfield I live in is pretty much new ground; so the community is still growing. I'm hurting inside that I don't have a Women and there's not many activities or social outings I can go to- to meet females. Can anyone help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 When people say 'there is someone for everyone', they are generally right. So somewhere out there, the woman of your dreams is waiting to be found.
Try not to complain about the women you have dated. Instead, keep on dating, and remember that each woman you meet has her own uniqueness and personality. Ask yourself what it is that women find attractive or unattractive about you and work to improve on those features. Also, try to be positive about each woman. What was it that made you want to date her in the first place? Be positive, and you find that people want to be around you.
I am in a long term relationship. I am happy most of the time, but meet all sorts of women in supermarkets, out shopping, at sports events, and even at gas stations. I am not particularly good looking or stylish, but I guess I am grinning a lot, and very positive. If women find men attractive because of that, it might be worth trying.
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