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writes:Hi i feel odd saying this, but i have noticed im the only on i know who has such strange emotions. i am straight, i fancy girls and not boys, that is clear. but i only seem to be turned on by one sexual act-blowjobs. and for some reason i think that vaginas are rather off putting and unnactractive. i will stress that i have no interest in males but penises look ok but vaginas to me look pretty nasty. i really dont understand why im like this. any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Peoples genitals vary greatly so some you may like and others you may not,just like some women may find your penis unattractive and vice versa. Doesnt make you gay x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): You're just young, that's all. I am assuming also that you are a virgin. Once you actually have sex I have a feeling your opinion will change. Just like when really little boys think girls are gross, and they eventually grow out of it and the very thing they used to find gross really, really turns them on.Besides, the sex organs are not really works of art, Penises and vaginas are pretty crazy looking if you think about it. But once you start having really long term, sexual relationships with girls you'll get over it, don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Do you spend time looking at porn? This might be part of the problem.
There was a time, say 30 years ago, when "porn" was tasteful nude photos. Some mens' mags that tended to be a bit raunchier, like Hustler, started to publish photos that were a bit more like a gynecological exam. But the chances of under-age guys seeing those were relatively slim -- it was a more prudish world, and that stuff was kept 'behind the counter.'
Now on the internet anyone can find anything. So a kid who, back in the day, might never see a vagina up close until he was married, can now see a whole variety of them -- shaved, pierced, aroused, penetrated, squirting -- before he's ever even kissed a real girl!
Bud, it's no wonder you find them a bit nasty. Without the emotion that goes with getting a girl turned on enough to actually let you see hers, I don't know how you could feel any other way.
Chill, man. When you're exposed to pheremones, the vagina you're about to munch will be the most beautiful thing in your world at that moment. ;)
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