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anonymous
writes:ok, so there's two guys i'm involved with. the first is my ex-boyfriend rob who i just recently broke up with. the second is my friend adam who i've been friends with for about 3 months now. me and rob broke up not even a week ago, and we still both love each other. he told me that he wants to get back together. i kind of do too but here's the problem. i have also found out recently that adam really likes me. i started talking to him and now i like him too. (also, adam did not cause me and rob's break up, we were just fighting a little too much lately.) they both know about each other and they want me to make a decision soon. i have dated rob for a year and five months, so i do feel like i should pick him, but at the same time, i feel that i should pick adam, because i should try to date someone new and adam is a very nice and sweet guy. i'm very conflicted and i have been thinking about who to pick but i haven't been able to choose yet. who should i choose?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): You should decide soon because it's not fair to leave them both hanging. You don't have to pick Rob just because you were with him for a long time.
Which of these two guys makes you smile everytime you see him, who treats you better and who do you feel most attracted to?
Just follow your heart, spend a little time with them both (as friends) And try and come to a decision based on who you have the most fun with and who you feel most comfortable around.
Just don't play them around or wait too long...
Best of Luck with it!
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