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*weetpie88
writes:hi guys. me and my boyfriend love each other to death and about 2 weeks ago he moved in with me. while cleaning up i found pics of a girl, which i guess that was his ex girlfriend bcuz ive seen a pic that they were kissing. i know i was not suppose to look through his things but why did he put it on the sofa.did he want me to see it or wat. if he loves me why does he want to keep her pics. i reali dnt wanna lose my boyfriend bcuz this relationship is serious and i love him so much.plz help
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (13 June 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnx babes im gna have to ask him and found out from him and anthing new i will tell u abut it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Well, I don't know if he intended for you to see the pictures or not. You will probably have to ask him about that. But if he only moved in a couple of weeks ago, then maybe his things are still all a bit disorganised and all over the place.
As for him having pictures of his ex, I suppose different people will have a different opinion. But I personally don't think it necessarily means anything to worry about. Maybe they went through a lot together, and he just wants some memories. It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants her back, or that he doesn't want to be with you. But if you have a relationship with someone, sometimes it isn't realistic to just forget about them completely.
I do think that maybe you should talk to him about this though. If you feel insecure or worried, then it is probably best to discuss it sooner, rather than get more and more worried and distrustful. Just tell him what you saw, and ask him how he feels towards his ex. It doesn't have to be a big, major thing. You could say that you are just curious to know, just wondering.
Good luck then, and I hope your mind gets put at ease. x
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