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writes:I have been in love with my teacher for years, he is perfect. he asked me to meet up and iv said no.. im regretting it so bad - i dont know why i said no, i was scared i guess that my crush was actully becoming real. now im never going to see him again.Im so depressed i dont know what to do.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes. i know..
right im ending this with him now.i cant do this anymore.
thank you x
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 he has a family?!? you didn't mention that
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has emailed me. and we have met up to talk and things. then we kissed. im not sure what i want anymore. i love him so much i really do. but i juts cant hurt his family, his job, his whole life. because that make me a selfish vindictive cow.. i hate this..
Thanks for your replys
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2009): dont bother.. seriously jst dont!
nothing is going to happen.. i had a major problem with one of my teachers 2 years ago and im so much happier now..
just dont :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey. iv just finished my exams so i have no reason for going into school and talking to him.. he has known iv liked him for 3 years and we are really close but i never imagined he had feelings for me and would want to meet me. i dont know what to do. i dont have his email adress or anything :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): Go talk to him and tell him you were surprised by his question and that's why you answered the way you did. Tell him you'd like to go out with him, if the offer is still open.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (14 June 2009):
you said no? you probably had a reason... even if you weren't aware at the time. a gut instinct, maybe.
but if you really think that you made a mistake, you should contact him. do you see him at school? have his email? if not, try a phone book or google.
not that i'm trying to sway you either side. it's cliche, but follow your heart.
good luck! and keep us posted
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Don't ever regret saying No to meeting with this teacher, hun. Doing that may have caused you more grief than you can imagine. I am not trying to downplay your feelings here but I want to say, millions of teen girls experience 'love' for their teachers, every day. I even remember having a big crush on my history teacher in grade 10. Two weeks later, when I began dating my bf..the teacher was out and this cute guy, was in. Do you see what I am trying to say? When we are in the middle of adolecence, the hormones go wild. We have crushes that last a week, a month, a year-even throughout our high school years. But we mature and eventually move on and later say to ourselves "what was I thinking!" Everyone works it out in their own time. But here is the reality. He knows he cannot date you and I think you know that, don't you. He's in a position of power here and asking you to meet him is wrong. He has to adhere to a code of strict ethics that all teacher's do-they don't become involved romantically with their students. So if you must still fantasize away about him, do just that, but don't go near him. Because you need to to realize if he does meet with you in a dating situation, he would put his career at great risk and it means he would doing something very wrong. And that is where you need to judge his maturity and questionable character. My advice, please, keep this all in perspective, stay away from him and report him to the proper authorities. Distract your self by getting out with friends, dating guys your own age and just having a blast. This is the age to be doing this...and believe me, by saying NO right now, you may feel sad, but guarunteed...in a few years you will see how wrong this teacher was, by asking you to meet him and you will understand it all a lot more clearly. You will see it for what it truely is. The handiwork of a manipulative, immature, smarmy teacher, who has no right dating his students.
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