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writes: I just dnt knw what to do.Ok i have been goin out with my boyfried for almst 5yrs i love him he is nt that much a lovimg guy bt he tries,he has a temper problem,we disagree mostly,he hit me once and never repeated again bt he kinda takes me fogranted i love him i believ he loves me too w used to stay close together nw he moved to another country just a boarder away but its a long distance item things hv changed now we dnt talk much but the love is stil there,the past 5months havent been easy though,now met this otha guy a girls dream guy loving and wants to make my dreams come true a big wedding u know this is my first time to date two guys at the sae time im growing to love this new guy and he is serious about getting married and i agree with him he is so exited believe me but now i dont know what to do wether to leave my long love for this Angel or to stick to my old relationship im so comfused please i need advice guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Does your "love" know that you've agreed to marry someone else?
Then have you been cheating on your boyfriend with the new angel guy?
If you have, then there's obviously something wrong with the "love" in that, it's not sufficient. And if you have, then this isn't really about you.. it should be about your bf and how you plan on telling him what's been going on.
You need to let him know that, so that he can let you go.
That's just not right.
But if you haven't been cheating, becuase he agreed to dating/falling in lvoe with other people while he was away, then I think it's abvious who you care about more. And jsut the way you word it.. violent vs. angell.
I believe you already know the answer to this,
~SY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): if you're asking this question i think you've already answered it yourself. ive been in the same situation. number one thing in a relationship is that you feel safe, and once that trust is shattered it takes a huge change or a huge strength for him to earn it back. i understand youve been with him for so long and its hard to just let go of all the love and all the happy times you've had but if you dont feel right in the relationship thats a sign its time for it to end. but its up to you, how you feel should outstand what your mind says. best of luck. hope everything works out for u x x x
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