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writes: I don't know how to move on. This is a bit of a long boring story (sorry), I have fancied this guy at work for about 2 years, he always seemed interested but when we arranged to go out he cancelled at the last minute with no explinaion, anyway after about three months we started talking again and getting on well, we just never mentioned the fact he blew me out, anyway we kissed once about six months ago (at work) and since then we have got on alright, I was kinda hoping things might have moved on after that day and on a recent works night out he asked when he were hooking up for a bit of fun, I said I don't hook up and he laughed. Anyway, I have come to the understanding that he is just not that into me and I have been trying to move on but I am finding it really hard, I am trying to avoid him at work but it's killing me because I like him soo soo much and I just want to be with him, it makes my day when we talk, I bumped into him today and he was asking what I had been up to and he said he knows I fancy him, I mean that is so big headed but if he knows that I like him, why can't he ask me out so again I am taking it he doesn't like me like that and is just playing head games pretending to be interested when he isn't, I mean he is good looking and he know it. But how can I get over him, I have tried in the past and even when I go out with other guys all I think about is him, I sound a bit mad but I have never had feeling for someone like this before. Another thing I find strange is that when we are talking he is scared incase someone sees but he talks to other girls and isn't bothered.Any help very welcome as this guy is always on my mind and it is doing my head in.
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reader, sean sean  +, writes (13 June 2009):
we as people have a memory chip stuck/ programed in our heads ! we will always remember wat we went thru ! always remember
who we been with , you will automatically think of Tha guy you are seeing now when ever you depart from him , we will always want yesterday back / we always want last years good moments back in our lives - remeber Tha time you had all that money $$$$
and
you
went shopping ! remember when you
and Tha girls
went out
and had a smasshing good
time ? ( you will remember yesterday tommorow ) get it do you get it ? you will remember yesterday tommorow , it means you have a good memmory
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