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male
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26-29,
*bjectivist Thinker
writes:Well, I gave this girl I like two notes, she didn't respond to any of them, and then I started shouting "DEVIN I LOVE YOU!" in hallways, and she told a teacher 'cause kids were teasing her about it and she was really upset. I feel really bad about it, and the teacher said to drop it. But I don't know if she meant the entire thing or just shouting out at her.Now, I have her phone number, my friend got it for me from a business transaction between her/her mother and his mother, and I don't know if I should call. I don't wanna be punshed but I want so desperately to ask her out somewhere so I can apologize and get to know her. First of all, is this illegal (the number is unlisted) and second, should I call and risk getting in trouble or should I just give her a long letter and ask her "Please read this, Devin, its important and I think it will explain a lot".
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reader, DearVicki  +, writes (13 June 2009):
you need to leave the girl alone, she is not the one for you and you have scared the poor girl away. get rid of the number its not worth getting into more trouble (and you will get in trouble). if you ever find yourself in a situation where you like a girl again be confident and go and speak to her ask her about herself. girls love a confident man not a scary one that shouts thing in hallways at them. let this be a lesson learned and move on from this girl.
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reader, pebble +, writes (13 June 2009):
 This is bordering on harrassment. Don't ring her number, throw it away. You'll only end up involving her parents if you ring it because she's going to tell them. Either that, or teachers will ask your parents to come in to talk about what's happening.
If it's getting to the point where she's telling teachers because your behaviour is upsetting her then you need to STOP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Back off, delete the number, she doesn't even know you have it! It'll be even more creepy if you start RINGING her when you aren't meant to have her number! And shouting i love you in hallways?....that's a bit much! Even Devin wanna go out would be better!
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 You should back off.. big time. No girl wants to be shouted at, even if you're telling her you love her. And no girl wants a stranger telling them theyre in love with them, especially in a crowded hallway, with a raised voice. You need to tone it down a little and next time just walk up to a girl and ask her a simple question. Get to know a girl before you go shouting that you love them..
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reader, rcn +, writes (13 June 2009):
 to tell a girl you like her, you went about this the wrong way. people are making fun of her, cause the way you went about this too. Legally, you're on the border of harassment and stalking. So, other contact with her can be seen as an illegal act. I'd back off. You made a mistake, no reason to explain this to her. Doing so will cause problems I don't think you or your parents will want to deal with.
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