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female
age
36-40,
*essyhim
writes:Okay so the girl my husband cheated on me with is every where i go.. i am no longer with him she is and she acts so childish. she makes her self obviouse to me like to rub it in or something. she had a baby from him so everytime she sees me she starts to get loud and talk to her baby about her daddy ( which is my husband who is in jail for 5 years). i try to ignore it cause i dont wanna stoop to her her level.. our daughters are in the same class and they just happen to be best friends.. i dont mind my daughter being her friend cause its not there fault there only 6 years old.. but why does she always try to talk to my daughter and buy her stuff. that does bother me.. she also had her niece post all kinds of pictures of her and my husband on my myspace.. how should i act when im around her cause its pretty much everyday when i pick up my daughter... shes so proud to have seperated me and my husband but she really doesnt realize she did me a big favor because hes in jail anyways...help please why do i feel stupid when i see her ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): she did you a huge favor. thank her and stop going out with men who go to jail.
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reader, Smellyellie  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 You shouldn't feel stupid about seeing her you are doing the right thing by not stooping to her level.
She is trying to make you feel jealous of what her and your husband have and in the truth of it I don't see why she would if heis in jail this would be something that I would be deeply ashamed about and try not to tell everyone.
She is probably trying to buy all the stuff for your daughter to get one over on you and again this is a tactic of her making you jeleaous..
I don't understand why she has got her niece to put pictures of her on her my space I think this is abit wrong you may be able to do something by getting in touch with the creators and having her blocked from your profile. This would therefore stop them coming through.
All I would say I'd be civil too her and make her sence that things don't matter too you because as soon as she finds a weakness in you she is going wind you up even futher.
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