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anonymous
writes: hi im a 14 year old guy and im confused about my sexuality. im straight i really like girls..but i also have bi-sexual tendencies..i think im attracted to guys too..does that make me bi or gay?... and also i like girls alot..but the whole vagina thing seems odd and kinda gross to me..the psnis looks okai but vaginas are kinda strange to me...what should i do?..and no offense to women thanks to anyone who helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): Hi, a lot of teenagers go through not knowing what sexuality you are, it's just a part of growing up I guess.
Liking both girls and guys would make you bi, but after some time you'll probably realise what your sexuality is.
The idea of a vagina might seem strange to you because , I assume, it's not osmething you're used to, whereas as a guy you've grown up knowing what a penis is etc.
Maybe you just feel you want to experiment with relationships with girls and guys, it happens.
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reader, imcurioustoo +, writes (13 June 2009):
Well first of all your only 14 and going through puberty so everythings new to you.. And it makes sense that you would be attracted to the same sex .. Mainly because your a guy and guys know what guys want you know.. But having bi tendencies doesn't make you gay .. You just haven't figured out your sexuality .. Vaginas aren't all that scary personally I find penises rather ugly lol.. But once you find the right girl it'll be second nature .. Just avoid any situation you don't feel good in
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 You could be bi-sexual, or bi-curious. At this age, or at any age, there is no problem exploring your sexuality.. it doesn't make you 'gay' it just means you may want to try new things..
Good luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2009): I think that you just aren't ready to be thinking about girls in that sexual a way. I felt the same way when I was like 12 (but I was an "early bloomer"...) about guys. Don't worry about it, at least not yet.
And the bi tendencies, I think you could be attracted to guys, or you could just be young and unfamiliar with the ideas of girls sexually.
Message me if you have questions--I'm a 15-year-old girl, and I really do know how you feel!
Good luck!
-GG
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