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writes:My gal was a virgin when i met her and unfortunately i was too. I say unfortunately coz i had a fuck buddy sometime after i met her. After i broke up that really had a toll on her and i made up after realisin i made a mistake, about 3weeks after we made up she went alone on holiday and met a really rich guy 25, spent in his place 2nyts sharin a bed but claims they never had sex just made out. We broke up when she told me but she begged me to take her back and swore not to contact him again. After a month, i found they wa talkin and he invited her to trips to the coast and outside the country to meet him but she never went. I broke it up again and she met him once for juice in town. I also got suspicious and would spy on her and saw their communication and at times she denied it. When we closed school she went to visit him for easter but i called her while she was there and the next mornin she was on the bus to come back to me. Not that i called to check on her, i just wanted to give her back her things as i was moving out. She hasnt talked to him again since, it's now been two months. I on the other hand have cheated on her with like three girls before she even met this guy and, forgave me. At the moment we r not really talkin coz she wants me to stop callin gals pet names, and talkin to my ex fuck buddy, and she made me block her. I kno am not perfect and neither is she but do u think i should keep her? She can nag, is submissive, stubborn, but sweet and i think i love her.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (14 June 2009):
 Its not about whether you should keep her (she is not a possession) but whether you can or should both be together. You both have a lot of issues with each other and because of this it might be best to start again with someone else.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (13 June 2009):
 You two, if you're staying together need counseling. This cheating back and forth, and hiding secret contacts is not at all appropriate or OK for a long lasting loving relationship. You guys have really been treating each other bad. If you love each other there is some work you guys need to do on your behavior. Loving or not, it won't last if these negative behaviors keep happening.
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