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writes:i love my teacher, i know what your thinking, but this is seriously the real thing. He is double my age, im 14, and when i'm at school i go out of my way to see him. Everytime he smiles at me my heart skips a beat. He flirts and he told me i was his favourite student. He also talks about me sometimes in other lessons to other people. Please, don't say anything bad about him, maybe this is all in my head? All i know is since he came into my life 3 years ago alot of things just seem to click into place. I know nothing can ever happen, but sometimes its seems as though the feelings mutual. I know what love is. I just need some advice and help.
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reader, bethanyb +, writes (4 March 2011):
Hey I knoe you posted this post ages ago but I feel exactly the same but I'm only 13 and my teacher is round about 40 ish and I have loved him for 2 years not but he is married and his wife has recently had a baby and I know 100% nothing can happen but all over evey bit of paper it says stuff about him I evrn have two books full of facts and things about him. I'm so much in love with him so some one please message me !!! I need help! Thank you xxxxx
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reader, MidnightSky +, writes (9 May 2009):
 hey there :) ignore the ones who say 'at our age were so immature' *rolls eyes* just becasue were young were not always stupid! we might make things like smiles from our favourite teachers more than they are but its amazing feeling like this right? i know how you feel, im there right now :) lucky you that he seems to flirt with you though lol! but, giving advice, obviously don't try anything with him, he might just think it a bit of harmless fun, which yes, might hurt you, but things could get a lot akwrad if you suggest or try something you see? not only might someone find out and he could lose his jo or teachin license altogether, but you'd hate to lose his friendship. i know how i'd feel if i lost my teachers friendship. stay friends with him for now, sock up all the great times you have together, and when he talks to you how your world seems to click into place for a few seconds. those feelings are great, some people may never feel them, so keep them tight :) x
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reader, ilovejdubb  +, writes (8 March 2009):
this is me in your shoes I'm in love with my math teacher and pol may say oh well every girl falls for their teachers but they dnt see the FEELING the feeling ur heart sinks an drops when he smiles or laughs an he makes me happy by smiling and being happy all I wanted was him happy cuz if he wasn't i'd be soo sad.....I kno how it feels....
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (6 March 2009):
 oooh! lucky you! how'd you get him to like you so much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wouldnt really say i was immature
i used to know this boy, who i became incredibly close too, i realised a little too late that i'd loved him. This sadly, was after i'd found out he loved me and before i realised my feelings he had moved on. However, the teacher i like, i love more than i did this boy. Thats how i know its serious. I care about him so much and try to do everything in my power to stop myself doing something stupid because i don't ever want to see him sad. He doesnt have a family, and he helped me out of one of my darkest moments. He means the world to me and i respect him so much that i refuse to do anything about it, even though it hurts and it sometimes seems he loves me too. Not all us are teacher obsessed freaks like you say. We cant choose who we fall in love with and neither can our teachers. We are just human and are not to blame for the way in which our hearts take us. I love him and i wish i didnt, because i know nothing can come of it, and if it did, he could get hurt. And i don't want that. In fact, him being sad hurts me more than knowing i'll never have him.
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 You probably already know this, but having a relationship with him would be illegal in more ways than one. Not only is he your teacher, but if he's double your age it would also be statutory rape. I know guys your age are incredibly immature, but try to find someone closer to your age to admire. :)masq
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