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*iset
writes:i've been married to my husband for two years.. but seems like i still don't know who is he.. i found quite several time that he with another girl.. even bring the girl to the house when i'm not arround. i try to forget and forgive. coz i really loves him.. and don't want to lose him. but everytime when i talk about my feeling to him, he just say sorry.. but he still can't stop for doing it! i pissed off of him sometimes! i try to make myself and treat myself better.. try to work properly, do some activity, excersise, etc! but everytime i got feeling that he do something wrong.. and i know is not just paranoid.i don't know why hes doing this to me.. if he can't accept or respect me, and if he not happy with me, why he need to marry me? we still havent got any kids yet. i know he married before.. and have two kids. but theyr all grown up ready. i don't know if i should have a kids with him or not. i'm afraid is effect my kids. married with no respect?! do a married man really need girlfriend? i understand if hes not happy married. but i dont think hes unhappy. but still want many woman. is this call it distrust? did he still can't trust me for doing this? or is because like that before he married me? i married him coz i thought he was really a nice guy ever..! loyal, honest. what he told me about him in the past, is not exactly the same like who he is now. i dont know him.. what should i do? should i leave for a good? or stay give him another chance and start new happy life with him? i just felt that it can't be. if he still doing it.
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reader, mtomas  +, writes (15 October 2009):
Excuse me everyone. Have any of you ever asked a guy. Look, as much as men love their wives (yes I m marrried) a little bit of excitment on the side really does improve the way we feel about our selves as a result we treat our wives better. The reason is simple. We are less irritated because we have sex more. There are seveveral good reasons why women should be more accomodating. If you want to dicuss this further visit my blogg
http://life2live-tm.blogspot.com/2009/09/life2live.html
There's much to discuss on the subject - plus I have lots to tell you regarding my own views and experiences, join me with an open mind !! I'll tell you more !
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reader, complete  +, writes (23 May 2009):
There are people who prefer numerous partners, your husband is one of them. It has nothing to do with you at all. He would do well as a polygamist (religious or non religious)What you need to decide is if you want to be with a non-monogamous parnter.
He is being true to his nature, this does not make him wrong or right its just the way he is.
Now you need to decide how you are and then live your truth as well.
Never judge another persons choices, there are many styles of living on this planet, and never compromise your own truth to honor someone elses. Accept him the way he is or move on to a relationship that is more your style.
Stay strong in what brings you peace and let others do the same.
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reader, siset +, writes (31 January 2009):
siset is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes my husband. but everytime he ask me do i ever feel bored with him? off course not! i said. do you guys think, that actually hes the one bored at me? maybe he does that, like dissrespact on me, bring another woman back home, is it because he wants me to go away? or he just trying my patient? i don't know... can anybody from this webside give me some advise please... thank you..soo much
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