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*att23456
writes:I recently foundmy perfect boyfriend, and although it doesn't seem long we are celebrating 3 weeks together tomorrow. However pleased I am (as normally people get sick of me by now) I am sometimes worried as I think he is going to dump me at anything, i don't know what to do and i need help chilling out and forgetting about him. I also have the slight inkling in the back of my head that he is cheating on me with a girl. Even though i know he is gay and i know he would never, ever cheat on me as he is the most genuine guy you could meet ( so much so that he hasn't had a boyfriend for a year, until me, he doesn't believe in having sex with someone until you're in a stable relationship with them and certainly wouldn't cheat on anyone, and he is scared by the though that someone will run off with a girl, from past experiences) please, please help me. I'm praying every night that I'm not with him that we stay together forever and to not let him dump me. I'm being the best boyfriend i can to him and i treat him in the best way possible. I am literally begging you to help me Reply to this Question
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reader, trick-xo +, writes (27 January 2009):
Dont think that uns will finish. i thought that about my current boyfriend for the first month or two! but i dont think it anymore and were still going stong. Just take one day at a time and do fun things together, go on a trip, something nice!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (27 January 2009):
 if you behave like the relationship is about to end for no reason all the time it might set things up to fall apart. you need to genuinely beieve that this might work out and that he likes you for who you are.
it is very important that you begin to discuss your hopes and fears together as it sounds to me like you are afraid to drop your barriers and experience intimacy.
relax
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (27 January 2009):
 If you are stressing about your bf dumping you, he will sense it you know! why you so paranoid hes going to end it with you?? Has he gave you any indications that he wants you??
In the end its going to be your behaviour and attitude that will break you two up. Just enjoy being together, have fun and try not to worry. You are only together 3 weeks , so you should still be all loved up and getting to know him.
Chill out and relax or he will end up getting sick of you !!
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