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writes:I recently met the most wonderful guy through a mutual friend, who is intelligent, caring and makes me feel wonderful. He doesnt want to rush anything, and is not ready for a serious relationship, as he had a bad experience last time. This is fine with me, as I am not the type to rush things We kiss, and cuddle a lot, and recently things have got more hands on, but at the moment, there is still no sign of a commitment, although he does drop "we" and "us" into the conversations without thinking. He talks about the future alot, and is making plans to do lots of things. Am I wanting too much too soon? He told me he has a profile on a dating site, but that he is just waiting for the subscription to run out, and that he is not seeing other women, yet it says there is daily activity. I see him 3-4 times a week at the least, so I dont know when he would get time to date other women. Am I just being paranoid? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): He was online on his dating profile again tonight. I dont know why I get filled up with such jealousy. Its ridiculous! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): recognize this. when you are on a datingsite, every time when there is a message you get mail and this makes you curious, so you take look.
Also he should have been talking to other women, so they might continue to send messages or who are even desperate for him.
He seems to be happy with you, is talking about a future together without realizing which sounds good.
Just be yourself, because if you behave temporary different he will learn later. (this doesn't mean that you cannot be very special and lovely to him).
Maybe its a good idea to take some more initiative. You could book a city trip together for a weekend, or a concert, or suprise him with some whishes that he talked already a lot about.
In general, a man you cannot impress with giving things, presents, but (romantic)fun/happiness/true feelings together and in the meantime you share more time together(and no dangerous competition around):):)
Realize that all our life we need to show our love and cuddle and suprise each other and and and and not just now to make him capitulate for you the coming periode:):)
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