A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:About a month ago my neighbor found out that I liked her. I have moved on and an completely over her by now.But sadly she still has this crazy notion that I still like her.She has a boyfriend that lives with her, and they constantly talk really loud over the fence.It is getting constantly annoying hearing them everyday, and I really wish she would stop thinking that I like her.Is there any way to notion to her and her boyfriend that I no longer like her???I would give anything to have one full week of complete silence without their voices of their dogs.
View related questions:
has a boyfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Griffo  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 It sounds your borderlining the last resort as it is mate, do you think she hasent told her bf about you? What if she's just playing you and he and her are just walking all over you having a good laugh. The longer you leave it the worse it gets. Just make things clear with her however way best suits you, she'll be cool with it.
Also, what is it that you don't like about her anymore?
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): I like the girlfriend approach. You could start making out in the yard at the time she comes home from work ;)
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Well if all else fails I could get on a plane to the US and we can toilet paper her house LOL, I am happy you found some comfort here, LOL but remember she can only annoy you as much as you allow her toT
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you "Griffo", You also have a good point. But, it will be a last resort type of action. lol =-)
...............................
A
male
reader, Griffo +, writes (27 January 2009):
Yes, simply tell her to her face. It's really that simple dude. Just say "hey I know what your thinking but it's not the case, I'm only interested in you as a friend. So get over it okay" that should wake her up a fair bit!
BIG mistake if you ignore! people think they will get board with you but what you actually do is make it worse... Ignoring makes people chase more because they will always want to know why you are ignoring in the first place. Not only that they can easily think you are just busy. And if she has an infatuation with you she can become obsessive.
Just be clear and concise and say it to her face.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBest post and advice yet!!! Thank you so much for your enlightened post. I will do exactly what you suggested one day. =-)
Keep being awesome, and have a good day yourself.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): So get yourself a shot g un and blow her brains out LOL not really …. There is not much you can do dear, but you need to remember that people can only annoy and irritate you if you allow them to, I am sure you’ve got a sound system in your house, well the next time you don’t feel like listening to their voices, turn your stereo up full blast, play the most annoying track you’ve got, or something you love, but laud enough for them to here, and laud enough for you not to hear them, otherwise get yourself some earplugs LMAO.
Good luck with this and have an awesome day today
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIgnore it. Keep doing what I've been doing. Got it.
Thank you "Kepi". Your answer is very true indeed.
But, Thank you for all your replies. =-)
...............................
A
male
reader, Kepi  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 So SHE thinks you like her, sounds like its her problem, just go on about your normal life, maybe bring a girlfriend or two over then she gets the idea that maybe you have other people in your life.
Interesting part of your original post is that you say you have 'moved on and are completely over her now' .... moved on??? over her??? did u have a fling with her? maybe u were infatuated and made it a bit too obvious?? The fact that you are getting annoyed with them talking in their own garden, that you can't bear to go to the kitchen, this sort of shows that maybe you're not quite over her, or maybe justifying your dislike by finding fault with her and her live in boyfriend.
Instead of thinking of, and reacting to all the things that are irritating, ignore them and soon you will find it completely automatic to switch off when they are in the garden or whatever.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionText message??? Facebook??? Smile at her??? Wave at her??? Lead Her On??? Are you reading the correct post???But, you are right, I suppose it shouldn't matter.Except for the fact that you don't live next to her, or have to deal with what i deal with on a constant daily basis.It's hard to ignore something so annoying and constantly there everyday. I can not even go into the kitchen.But, thank you for your reply and answer.Also, I like your name, "Leo Gallagher". =-)
...............................
A
male
reader, Leo Gallagher  +, writes (27 January 2009):
If you don't like her, then ignore her. Don't send her text messages, don't poke her on Facebook, don't give her smiles, don't wave at her - basically, don't lead her on in any way.And if she still thinks you like her, let her think that. What difference does it make in your life whether she thinks you like her or not?
...............................
|
