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female
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36-40,
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writes:Hiya people, One quick question when a guy says he doesn't go back to his ex, does he mean it even when people say there's a connection between you both? That's what my ex has said to me, but he's gone back to one of his ex's before and it hasn't worked, but I'm different to her. He says we're better off friends but manybe I just want more, he knows how I feel about him. Guys would you ever get back with an ex girlfriend? We talk on the phone every day.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Wow, it seems like this question comes up every day. I really don't have a lot of experience with ex-s, but reading thru this post I was struck with a strange sense of deja vu. I knew I had seen this question in some form before. So to deemotionalize the question what you are asking is "if a guy says no does he mean no?". I would say that if he is a man he says what he means and he intends to stick to his word. The continual begging and pleading and phone calls are like the wheedling of a child who wants an extra treat after the parents have already said no. He probably finds it annoying and clingy.
Now we really have no background and do not know what prompted your break up so all we can give is general advice. So if there are other factors, I could very well be wrong.
In the end I would say that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. No means No. Anything else is harassment.
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