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writes:hi. i'm in love with this guy but he has all the characteristics i should run away from but i cannot help myself...he is arrogant, rude and very uncaring but i love him still. lately he has been ignoring me and not even calling as he used to? i've got pride and i dont want to seem desperate by making all the moves. pls, help, what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (27 January 2009):
stop calling or texting . you deserve to be loved
you may love him but if he isn't treating you well its better to let go. with time the love will die away
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): I think this rude arrogant uncaring guy has you chasing your tail and you are mistaking the resultant strong feelings it stirs up in you for love....it isn't....you are having a basic human desire for something you cannot have....sadly many people are wanting only what they cannot have.
If you want to bring him closer, take advantage of this human fraility and act hard to get...don't call him text him or email him.....stay away from him and go out with some other guys....he will get word of it....and then he may check out why you aren't chasing him any longer.
But I wouldn't hold my breath.....he sounds like an arrogant rude uncaring jerk. Why don't you think you deserve better?
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