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I Think I may like girls but how do I tell my boyfriend??

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Question - (27 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok so I heard the song by Katy Perry you know the taste of her cherry chapstick and I think I may like girls. Yeah I kissed a girl before or girls and stuff I dont want God to punish me because Im a strong believer in God. So what do I do? Hide the feeling? Tell my Boyfriend and see what happens? Cry and let it go? What please guyz help me soon xoxox Anonymous

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009):

1. The bible is'nt homephobic! God loves us all. Theres a website explaining everything about the bibles perseption on homosexuals.

2. Are you definetly not into guys at all?

You can like both. Im bi myself.

3. You should'nt base your sexuality on a song.

Just do what you belive is rite and follow your own road of happiness! If you are a lesbian then Im guessing your bf might be upset but if he is truely there for you he would exept you as a friend, for whoever you may be!

All the best xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009):

If you are 100% sure then tell him and break up but If you're not dont make a huge mistake maybe its just a stupid feeling which will go away and you'll be sorry for dumping him...(sorry my english isnt good I am from Slovakia not from the USA so..its bad)

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2009):

If you are with someone then I strongly believe that you shouldn't tell them you like someone else. That is just upsetting for them.

If you don't want to be with your boyfriend and be with girls instead then dump him and go out with a girl. Don't make him deal with it if you are having a crisis. It's not fair on him.

I believe that cheating is cheating and it doesn't matter if it's male or female.

As for whether there is a vengeful God up there who wants you to be miserable, that is up to your religion and beliefs. Talk to your minister / vicar / whoever.

Good Luck!! xx

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