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*heworldisround
writes:I think I've probably been rejected, albeit gently. There's this girl that I really like. Right now we're pretty good friends with each other. I even gave her a surprise birthday present a while back, and return she made this cute plushie for my birthday as a surprise back to me =DOne thing that she does is to put her close friends as part of her 'family'. She'd have one friend be the 'dad' of the family, another a sister, an uncle, etc. Of course, I'm lucky enough to join this family; I'm now one of her 'brothers'.I've never confessed my feelings for her, and we've never really been out on a date before. I'm not quite sure how to interpret this...whether she probably will never think of me other than a close friend, or something even more.Ohh what should I do? Accept this situation and attempt to move on? Try to ask her out on a date still later? Ahh I don't know what to do...which is why I'm posting here.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 Ask her out to dinner, on a date where you can talk. Make sure she knows it's a date and you may get your answer before hand. Anyway, start up the conversation over dinner. Just tell her the truth. Yes, there is a big chance of rejection. There always is. But you gotta know if you have a chance so you can move forward. After that the rest is natural.
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reader, theworldisround +, writes (27 January 2009):
theworldisround is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhm... I see...good point.But how should I that?
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (27 January 2009):
If you really like her then you have to not be one of her "brothers". Sometimes you have to tell them "hey I like you and all but I got enough friends. I'm looking for something more" You have to find out if she likes you, and if she doesn't then you have to decide if thats ok with you just being her friend. Because at that point thats all it will everf be.
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