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writes:I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at soccer/football and I'm not. He's got a great tan and my knickname is casper cause I'm so white. He's muscular I'm not. He's had girlfriends, I haven't. How do I impress her without looking like a dork??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Hiyayeah i think the key thing here is to be yourself, and if the girl in question doesn't like that, then at the end of the day, it's her loss not yours. She obviously doesn't see what you do have to offer her.I know that it's easier said than done, when like you say, she is the girl of your dreams. I can't tell you the number of times I have liked a guy, and nothing has ever come out of it, just because obviously we weren't meant to be together. I suppose just try talking to her, maybe about things you have in common and then see where it goes from there.Also, stop comparing yourself to this guy because it is just going to make you more insecure and more nervous around this girl. I don't know if i have been of any help, but i hope so.Good Luck.
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reader, audie  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 the best advice i can give you is be yourself coz i knw from experience that the harder u try to impress someone the more likely u are to come accross dorky. if she doesnt like you for who you realy are then she might not be the girl for you. i'm sure you'll find sm1 crazy about u- crooked teeth and all. all the best.
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