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writes:Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I have both given him a handjob and have given him oral, yet he still won't touch me in any more sexual way such as fingering me. It worries me because I think he doesn't want to go any further because I like disgust him or something. Why would he not want to touch me sexually? Is he maybe just too afraid to? I'm not sure what to do and I'm not sure why he would be doing this.Thank you for any help =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): It might be because he doesn't want to be the one "starting" something illegal, since no matter how much it sucks it's still illegal for him. =\
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (30 January 2009):
 he could just be shy and unexperienced..and he's scared to tell you, and scared that he wont do it right..
so you just need to assure him and make him feel comfortable..and have a tlk with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): the guy will be scared if he's bad at it, i mean its not really hard but some lads can be scared incase they don't do it right or something. Put his hand there and he will have to do something ;)he dont think your disgusting, lads dont do that ...
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (27 January 2009):
 ...it kind of sounds like he's not all that experienced or is somehow inhibited. He needs your assurance that he may touch you that way. I think that perhaps just saying what it is that you want or would like done needs to be expressed. I would suggest that you speak about it openly (someplace other than in bed and in a comfortable place) -- don't do this while you're in the middle of a passionate embrace! During love-making you could guide his hand and show him what you want.
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