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writes:I need some help.Okay so I have been talking to this brilliant guy he is everything I am looking for in a man. This is all online on a forum not this forum this is the only place I can ask for advice without coming across a weirdo. I have seen pictures of him he's really good looking. He's 18, I'm 21, but he looks older age is just a number. I have fallen for him, I did something I don't normally do is post pictures of myslef online I also told everyone my name as well, that was all just for him, he told me I was so beautiful. He lives in another country, and all I have been thinking about is how it would be like if we met, where we would go, what would we do? I really feel that there is something there something really special, but needs time. We are all human right, so there isn't a distance to love, love has no bounds, right?Please can someone help me and it would be even more helpful is for people who have been in a simular situation as well. Reply to this Question
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reader, cdognon  +, writes (27 January 2009):
i met my boyfriend online when i was 14, i spoke to him online for about 6months before we met and we have been together for 4.5 years, he lives about an hour and a half away from me but for a kid its a long way, only now we are having problems...personal on my part as i have fallen for someone else.. but just wanted to say dont worry, online meeting isnt always bad! just make sure you are carefull, i made sure i web cammed with him...so i knew his pictures wernt fake, and i took my older sister and friends when i met him!!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Well I have been in that situation quite often in the past year or so. Currently with a young woman about 140 miles away in Texas. We plan to meet about halfway soon, but then if things progress, we will spend most of our time far apart. This will inevitably be a problem, including financially. I'm very much older, so my case is very different, but yes, distance can be both a hindrance and can also be overcome if promising. Your first meeting will either confirm your passions or dissuade you, and that's the key. Face-to-face makes the difference.
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