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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single?The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everything. Trust me there were big signs which at some point made me back away when i wasnt sure how i felt about him and trust me i truely regret that. People have seen him show he likes me and have often thought things were gonna happen. But yea anyway stuff has happening int he past and it was enough to show it all!But hes said to many people + me he doesnt want a relationship atm, and i respect that! Dont get the wrong idea im not gonna try and change his mind or anything as long as we're friends im happy!Also things got abit strange not too long ago. His mate added me and started talking to me asking stuff like is there anyone i liked and i said not atm because im sick of people saying stuff about us and i didnt really know her then. Shes a nice girl though. Since then ive found out from someone else(ive seen the conovs off msn) that she wants to get me and this guy together, and that she wants to mak us happy but shes not sure she should get involved. Anyway ive not said anything else to her about this or anything but from whats happened she seems to know something like hes told her something? do you think? because theres no other way she could of known me apart from through him and it just seems weird. Ok i am just wndering here, i know i could never change his mind and im not going to try to, we;re friends and im happy with that, i resepct the fact he doesnt want a relationship but i just want to know if this stuff happened what would you think, just to put my mind at rest because im always going over it! Its doing my head in and i just want someone elses opinion and want to know what signs a guy would show if he likes you but doesnt want a relationship atm. Please dont get the wrong idea im just curious just to put my own mind at rest because i wanna know if what ive been seeing al this time was true!
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (17 October 2009):
 hmmm. bet you wouldn't believe me if I said I'm in the exact same situation with a guy at university? it sounds here that at least you have an ally who wants to get you guys together. just go with the flow and see what happens. maybe if she's trying to set you guys up means he's beginning to change his mind about the relationship thing.Fingers crossed it works out for both of us!
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