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writes:i just discovered my boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at, and jacking off to shemale porn. i discovered it while using his computer. i was on google, and the little "memory typing" came up and said transvestite dating sites. i called my boyfriend as soon as i saw this and his reply was, "i just wanted to see if it exsisted." well, for some reason i felt he wasn't being honest. so, i went through his history and found at least a hundred sites devoted to shemale porn. luckily, there was nothing to say that he was trying to meet these...women? anyways, when he got home i confronted him about it. it took a lot of coaxing to get it out of him, and it turns out he's been looking at and jacking off to this type of pornography for almost two years. and this whole time we have still been having sex.i need to know, is this just a phase? is it that he's gay, or bi sexual? is it normal for straight guys to be turned on by shemale porn?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): Shemales and ladyboys are a very... beautiful... gender, no need to freak out, even if he is a bisexual, I am and shemale porn is my fav. type
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I found out about shemales the same way. But my guy eventually offered the truth that he enjoyed sex with ladyboys in Thailand before we met. We've shared openly about these things and have had several menage tois with other women. I must admit, some of these shemales are really beautiful and I think it'd be less threatening to play around with someone who probably wouldn't fit into our everyday life. Plus, think of it...as another toy...
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (15 August 2009):
 I wouldnt go straight to saying its 'normal' behaviour no.... you have done extremely well maintaining this relationship after a discovery like that, id take my hat off to you if i were wearing one. i suppose it could be looked at as everyone has their own fantasies, as this one is somewhat disturbing to us to others it could be 'normal' as opinions vary. i wouldnt say he was gay or bi personally as all of the gay n bi guys n girls i kno get very disturbed by seeing lady boys! and another thing here is hes not strictly looking at 'men' either. i think he genuinely just gets off on transvestites.. just like some ppl get of on pain, whips n chains, foot fetishes, poo! ect ect, everybody is different. and as much as id love to say you shouldnt put up with it, at least he was honest with you in the end, and its something you will either have to come to terms with or it'll end up breaking you up. try and be as open minded as possible with this. altho i will be honest with you here, i dont think i could carry on a relationship knowing what you kno. but that is just me, im hoping your a stronger person because 5yrs is worth fighting for.. providing its been a happy relationship of cause. i wish you the best of luck with this chick. take care, JD x
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