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My ex boyfriend screws up all my new affairs, what to do?

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Question - (15 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2009)
A female Brazil age 41-50, *elis writes:

Dear readers,

Im having problems with my emotional love life.

It started a couple years ago when I broke up with the perfect guy, and i'm not overreacting about this, he was really the love of my life.

After that, i've been with other guys but i just can't forget him! and when i am really close from doing this, he pops up again in my life, saying those good stuff for our ego, y'know. (tell me that isn't just great?)

so, i can really say no to him and neither overcome that past. what should i do?

is he doing this on purpose so i woulnt have a lovestory again, or am i just being to paranoic?

thanks yall!

please, help me.

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A female reader, Delis Brazil +, writes (24 August 2009):

Delis is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Delis agony auntthank dude...but I forgot to say that he lived in another state and wanted to control my life like a sick bastard.

but you're right...

cheeers!

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A male reader, softtouchmale2003 United States +, writes (15 August 2009):

softtouchmale2003 agony auntIf he's perfect for you, why are you seeing other people? Why did you break up with him in the first place? It seems to me he keeps popping up because you want him to.

Maybe you're doing something to contact him in between? Or let him know you've met someone else?

Ex's don't just appear out of the blue horizon. They are out there and showing up in your life because you're in contact with them somehow.

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