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writes:the same guy who i was talkiing about in friends with benefits just asked be back out ...he broke up with me the frist time because people made fun of him cause i was 2 years younger than himsecond time was because hes to oldand third time was because he doesnt want to have a serious relationship so some girl asked him out and he told her no because he still loves me so im confusedbecause at one point he loves me and the next he doesnt and he always gets with me and breaks meh heart and i dont know if hes gonna do it againi think he is just going out with me because he feels bad but i need to know if hes just useing me so i need help !:)
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (16 August 2009):
 he sounds pretty confuse to me,any guy who really loves someone wouldnt care less how people look at him and think of him whiles being with you. And to me you should really think twice before you getting really hurt again.advice: if he tries to get to you for asking for sex...i think you should really say no because to me, personally i think he would just hurt you again and this time it will totally look like he been using you the whole time
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reader, a spades a spade  +, writes (15 August 2009):
dont do it.
tell him that when hes made his mind up to let you know, and then walk away and dont hold your breath.
i dont think he's using you but i dont think he knows what he wants either. maybe you walking away will help him get thing in perspective.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): the same happened to meee! i'm 14, he's 17. the first time was cause his friend made fun of him. then, he's too old, then, cause he doesn't want any serious relationship. but he still rejects other girls, he just acts like he cares, staring at me and everything, but he doesn't make a move. my advice is a) talk to him. tell him you can't wait. b) find some other cute guy just to make him hurry up (act like you're really involved with him) if he doesn't come back, then move on.
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