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writes: i have two questions i grew up in a crack infested hood and saw all kinds of crazy sht and got involved with alot of things as i got older, As a kid i was a crack addict before i got my first pair of pullups well i move from my home and broke my habit but starting running the streets as young kid i got well known and started working with some big time dealers by middle school i was getting paid no body fcked with me and by HS i made ,ore cake then the teachers life was good crazy but good i had some good dudes to roll with there was always beef and shootings over money and drugs. sometimes girls or disrepecting someone.Things where good but the young boys started bangin hard shooting for everything the older dudes was getting loked up like crazy feds where crakin down theese got out of hand kids was killin each other for nothing not even money over somebody sayin somehting about there moms. this old timer told me im smart i should i should get out.See this guy did some time got pyralzed so he was real.I moved up got out. now i check out this 9 to 5 thing the moneys ok but they take alot in payin taxes but its legit its in an office people wear suits and theres white people everywhere.Theres a girl that i have to work with shes ok from some nice town shes white well shes been telling me about college and all this other stuff and treating me ok she even listens to a hip hop artist crazy about him actually,so i asked her if she wanted to go to a club he was gonna be at and she did.We had a good time and all and she told me we should hangout again. so we did on several ocasionsAt work though these guys found out and now there fcking with me constantly talking to me like they kno me I dont want to sound liek a tough guy but im not used to people treating me this way with no consequence. I told this girl and she said there just jealous not to do anything or ill get fired just ignore them. Im bored though with working like this i only want to come to see her i keep hearing of sht that goes down on the streets and i wish i was there. should i quite this place teach theese guys not to mess with me and stop seing this girl even though i like her.
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reader, Mr. Adviser +, writes (16 August 2009):
 I grew up around the same shit, and if it wasn't for my girl, I wouldn't be here today. That old dude, he was a wise guy. Keep the job. If this girl makes you happy, sometimes you gotta take the good with the bad. I'm willing to bet if you go back to the way things were, you'll be wishing you had it the way things are. You gotta be strong. No pain, no gain. Theres a lot of shit to put up with in life. You can do it though. P.S.. In most states there is a zero tolerance law for people fckin with you like that at work. A good way to teach them a lesson is to get the ases fired for that. All you gotta do is prove that their sht is causing you stress that makes your work harder. I'd go that route.Stay strong, don't give in to your instincts.
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