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writes:ok so my fiance of 4 years and i have been discussing myself beining with another women which im kinda interested in if its the right person, so we talked about this for 3-4 ,months non stop then he just let go for awhile. last nite he walks in from work and his exact words were, " guess who i bumped into after work, then he said a girl he used to with which was his friends girl, i have talkedto her 3-4 times.(dont know her very well).. but aout 20 minutes later he bring me being with another women up and asked if the girl he ran into could join..??? i dont know whats gong on or if there is anythig going i maybe over reacting... is he attracted to her.?? i asked him why her and he got all adfensive and stuff... please help me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): This sounds like trouble.
You say "is he attracted to her?" as if it has to be a yes/no and if he gives any answer other than no then its a threat to his feelings for you.
I am not blaming you for your feelings but this is the wrong situation for a relationship to survive a threesome. If he can't show interest in anyone else without you feeling threatened then it sounds more like you really just want to have his consent to jump another woman yourself as a "twosome."
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reader, misztoria +, writes (15 August 2009):
 He might just be excited to see you with her because he finds her attractive. Nothing wrong with that, men will always find other women attractive. I doubt he prefers her over you, but because you did bring the whole 3some thing up you have to be careful on how you go about it because you don't want to bring this on and then have him want it all the time unless you're up for it. Personally I would never bring that into my relationship, especially when I'm on the verge on getting married, it opens up to many doors and I'm not prepared to have my man bring 3somes up all the time. But that's just me, good luck hun!
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