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writes:Okay i know it may sound a little sick, but i want to be with may sister... Granted she's my STEP sister, but still, i know she would be against it if i told her that i secretly love her and want to be with her because she considers us siblings even though our parents aren't quite married yet. Is their any way i can get my sister (5 years younger than me) to love me back and want to be with me? And please don't think i'm psycolgically wrong in the head or succumbing to my hormones, because i know for a fact that i'm sane and i've had relationships with other girls that have led up to sex. Please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Dude read what your wrote 10,000 times and if it still makes sense to you hell go for it maybe by then your sister will have learned to tie her shoes.
Seriously man nothing good will come of this, It will be like being married since this girl will be living with you. She doesn't want to be with you she already made that clear so leave her alone.
Check your self before you wreck yourself dont touch her if you do you will regret it no means no, If you truly love her you can wait till she graduates college to make another move.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (15 August 2009):
 I think RifRaf said all there needed to be said here. If she's 10???
Stepsister is nowhere near the creepy factor of a teenager being in love with a 10 year old. So think about that
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reader, Delis  +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Come on!
she's probably just a kid!
dont ruin her childhood with emotional affair issues...let her discover that by herself. that will help her grow mature and ready for serious and right relationships.
i'm not telling you it wrong or right to have someting with you..but thats just not the time yet.
let her decide..no rush!
and i be sure you respect her all the time. control yourself, pleaaaaaaase.
best regards,
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): well i can say that what you're feeling isn't wrong at all. You say your parents aren't married yet, which means that she is just a girl, not your sister, let alone stepsister. My advice: you try to make her realize that you're not siblings....at least not yet. If she realizes that, the next step is to convince her to feel the same way about you. You should findout what she likes and play on that. Make her laugh and always make things fun between you two. After that, there's no way she can't not have ANY feelings for you, even if their just small. Then you ask her out like any other girl. Hopefully you can manage this before the rents get married, otherwise it might be a little tougher. Hope i helped!
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reader, busy04 +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Young man...simply put, you need to find someone else to be with!
Especially if you already know that she values the "morals" of being siblings, then leave her alone!, don't try to change her mind about that. You cannot make her or anyone else for that matter love you back. And she is TOO young for you anyway, she's a baby & so are you no matter what relationships you've already had. There are plenty of other girls that you can be with, so be with them!
Get a grip on yourself, leave your stepsister alone & be happy!
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