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writes:hey evrybody out there.i am actually fairly young but i think i am bi.i make out with girls and it doesnt feel right.i like doing it but half of my wants me to stop.is there anything i can do to find out for sure? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): there's a LOT you can do to find out for sure. But at 13-15, I wouldn't recommend doing any of it yet. Keep your options open and see who you enjoy making out with more. Do what feels right and make up your mind as you go along.
'i like doing it but half of my wants me to stop'...at this early stage, the odds are that you're bisexual. The 'half' that wants you to stop is most likely a result of society's anti-gay slant having implanted into your mind the idea that getting frisky with people of the same sex is 'wrong' or vaguely humiliating. (This may also be part of the thrill) This 'half' is currently in a battle against the 'half' of you that just loves doing it.
Or, it could be that you're not really into girls as much as boys. Way too early to tell.
If you do turn out to be gay or bi, don't feel bad about it, lots of people are and there's nothing they can do about it.
Good luck!
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reader, LoveIsRough +, writes (11 September 2009):
 Hey, calm down! I am bi. I kiss girls, but I'm more into guys. Sometimes I go farther, but I always feel somewhat regretful. It isn't bad to be straight and liking to make out with girls. What do you think my icon says?
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reader, Shelbyy-x +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Just because you make out with a girl doesn't make you bi. Have you ever felt like you had feelings for a girl? Or try doing sexual things with one and see if you like it. Make sure you tell her you're just curious though. The first girl I dated I was with for 2 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): The easiest way to tell which gender you are attracted to is to think about which gender you masturbate to. If you don't masturbate, then start and see which turns you on more.
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reader, AllisonDro +, writes (15 August 2009):
i think its more likely that you just havent found the RIGHT person to make out with yet. if you dont feel a strong emotional connection with someone, it is common for kissing to "not feel right"
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