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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i knew this beautiful girl over the internet two years ago.. always has crush on her even after i knew she has a boyfriend. but i was "professional" enough to be just friendly.. as time passed by she sorta confessed that she has feelings for me, but it's her first time fallin for a female, and of course the fact that she has a bf made her too confused and we both know it's not right. i've tried to remain as friend...i know and i feel she's trying..there was once i wanted her to make a choice but she didnt. i kind of left her once, but went back again. but God.knowing that she has feelings for me makes it impossible to walk away just like that! she's really trying her best to be just a friend..but i know she cares for me a lot and i cant hide my feelings for her anymore. i love her.... and i know she's happy to have me,whether as a friend or more than that. should i keep trying? i want her :(
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reader, MonicaC  +, writes (15 August 2009):
 It's always a bit dangerous to involve yourself with someone who is already with someone else, whether the other person is male or female. First of all, you could end up being used as an 'experiment' for her, and when she has had what she wants of you, she still has her bf to run back to. Secondly, you run the risk of being deeply hurt because she's not really gay. And, finally, don't you think enough of yourself to be with someone who really wants to be with you? Don't you deserve someone who is willing to take a stand, break it off with whomever, give it a genuine go with you instead of stringing you along?Take a good long look at your situation and be realistic. Love is all very well, but it sounds more like lust to me. Maybe it's more, but she IS with someone else and he IS a man. She's not gay. Move on.
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