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male
age
30-35,
*teelpicker
writes:HiI came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile.We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her.I just worry that she might be put off by my being overweight. I am making good progress with weight loss, but I don't think it will make much difference in just a few weeks. Any advice on how I should cope with that aspect of meeting her.Also, this is the first time I have met anyone from anything like that, and the first time ever I will be meeting someone like this where we both know we are looking for something. Any general advice?
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reader, steelpicker +, writes (6 October 2009):
steelpicker is verified as being by the original poster of the question We are meeting tomorrow for the first time. wish me luck
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reader, steelpicker +, writes (18 August 2009):
steelpicker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh well it is done now, all happy as it went well I think.
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (17 August 2009):
I agree. You have to approach with a more non chalant spirit. if you make it seem like you are really insecure about that will make her think she should have a problem with it. If you act like it is simply just something you are trying to address and nothing else than her attention will likely be averted to other more important things. A guy being overweight is not the same as a girl being overweight. A guy can't get off just telling a girl she needs to lose weight to be attrative to him. But girls are usually a little more forgiving of that sort of thing is the other things are there for her
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reader, steelpicker +, writes (16 August 2009):
steelpicker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease. Some advice.
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reader, steelpicker +, writes (16 August 2009):
steelpicker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease. Some advice.
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reader, steelpicker +, writes (15 August 2009):
steelpicker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have mentioned being overweight, but only in passing.
I know she should know...what's the best way to do it?
cheers
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 August 2009):
 you could talk with her online more webcam and send her pictures this way you will find out how she feels about your weight issue. she could weigh more then you for all you know
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