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writes:I got a question, whats so great about sex all my freinds talk about sex all the time that and how to get more money im so tired of hearing it they make it seem like its the best thing in the world basicaly they make it sound liek water or air.They go into great detail about there sexual deeds im really sick of it so i have very few freinds now because it just got to anoying hangingout with them.Ive been to stripclubs and other places but it disgust me i only go to drink. One time i went and a freind put money in front of me the girl came over to and danced she was naked i moved back a bit she pulled me close, she was very pretty with a nice body but it felt gross and she smelled wierd down between her legs.i never smelled any thing like that not stink to say but it was wierd i didnt like it im pretty sure she was showered and clean this was a respectable place. I was traumatized though i cant think about women any more i can watch porn but i cant be around a real one they disgust me i kno its not normal and ill never have a gf now what do i do if im ever gonna loose my virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): I agree with sum4gvn. Get to know some real life women. They don't smell perfect but neither do you unless you're pretty freshly cleaned. (And some of them smell a lot worse than others. Some of it is natural and some is their hygiene.) If you don't experience women as much more than a life-support system for a vagina then it's not a big surprise that you have a hard time getting excited about them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Well, just think about it, what if a girl gets grossed out if your behind stank? It's normal, everyone's behind stinks. A couple minutes after a shower it's going to stink! So if you get a nice girl friend and think her vagina is going to smell like flowers then you're on the wrong direction.
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reader, sum4gvn +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Why don't you try not going to strip clubs and not watching porn and see if your attitude towards women changes? It almost sounds like your feeding negative images of women into your head so that you have an excuse to be turned off by them.
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reader, meganutts +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Lol well this is an easy one, look bruh, don't put so much emphasis on being traumatized by that encounter, understand that not all women are doing those things and you shouldn't hold it against every woman just because of one who strips for a living. She's making her money the way that she feels she has to, not to say its right because its not, but she's doing what she feels she has to do. As far as the smell, maybe she's doing more than what she should be doing but that's her choice right? Women are beautiful among other things, and you shouldn't be held back by that. Hope that helps.
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