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writes:Hi friends I am frm India. For the past one year i am in love with my cousin that is my mom's elder sister daughter.In India we cant marry mom elder sisters daughter. but til this moment i love her to the core and DE same from her too.IS there any wrong in marrying her? Will there be any problem in our marital sex life ? Please give me your valuable suggestions and mainly i cant live with out her...................
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reader, Mr. Adviser  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Well friend, I am not from India, but I can accurately say your culture and mine feels the same about the issue your dealing with. You would not be the first to do so, nor the last. One of the most intelligent persons on earth, Albert Einstein, married his cousin. If the feelings are mutual, why fight them? It doesn't hurt anyone physically. I would not do it myself, but I have never been in that situation. I give you the best of luck. Society finds it wrong, but is it really so wrong to want to be with someone that makes you so happy?
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (15 August 2009):
Being from India myself, I think its a really big deal in the society there. Would you be able to bear with all the nonsense youd have to face if you end up with her? People will look down on you and youd hate to go out if youre planning on living there. Even before that, I duno if youre parents are first of all guna let you do this. I must say that youd be emotionally very sad even if you end up together because lifes not good when ppl around you look down on you and you lose friends Also biologically speaking, I duno if you know stuff abt homogenous recessive traits but youre child might have some problems as the gene pool is very similar in youre case. google more on this topic and youd find out. consider this as an advice feom a fellow elder sister in india : drop this idea of being with her.be friends with her Or if you r guna be with her anyways regardless of what society and biologists say, shift to some other country. :)
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