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writes:Hi I've previously asked advice on how to get the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with back. I know the spark has gone for now but I believe I can reignite it. Has anybody any advice I dont want people to say move on etc I would appreciate advice on how to go about getting her back like giving her a tape of all our favourite music or just letting her know i'm here. Please please please help me I have to try something before I lose her forever and if that happened I don't know what i'd do.Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): Well you have to stop being clingy for one. Two spend time on yourself do things for yourself and hang with old and new friends. I guess I could say that some women want what they can't have. So in other words even if she does eventually talk to you and whatnot talk to her back just don't make her see that ur desperate. Make yourself important and if u go to the movies or whatever tell her u had fun and don't tell her if she wants to hang out again just hold on till the next day to see if she tells you instead. Always important to show girls that you are not devoting your time only on them that you also have a daily life to attend nothing drives em more crazy than that. Women think about alot of things if she eventually tells in someway without making things obvious that she wants to be back with u then make it your choice from then on. But be careful women can be tricky also I mean sometimes u may think in your head "Omg wow if this keeps up we're gonna be back together in no time! :D" Sad truth is that sometimes it makes women realise that they don't like you that way or want you that way anymore don't ask how it's how they opperate. Anyway sorry for the long response but hope this helps and goodluck! :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 August 2009):
Well first off, she can probably smell your desperation and obsession with her a mile off and let me tell you, that is NOT attractive.
So first off stop being so clingy and figure out how you have changed from when you met her.
THAT was the guy she fell for, not a soppy state who's going to threaten self harm if she leaves.
The pressure of all this love for her is probably putting her off.
Chill out and just be you and have some fun with your mates, then have some fun with her.
Good Luck!! xx
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