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writes:I am in a 3 month relationship, with this guy i really do love. i am having jealousy problems, i think. when i first got together with him, i knew he had playboys. but it did not bother me at the time. well later on in the relationship, i would get jealous if he starred to long at a poster of a real hot girl in a bikini. not to long ago we went to hooters and he bought a poster. that felt like a slap in the face. now he wants to go to a strip club. how should i feel. he has told me he loves me. but when he looks at these things and wants to go to see other naked girls. it makes me feel like im not good enough. how should i take this. i am new in the whole serious relationship thing. is it just a guy thing. what is a guy thing? i feel like im not good enough thats why he wants to see other girls. is that true?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): The world is still revolving around him. He has not grown up. Every male is different. you'll end up having to emotionally blackmail him to get anything out of him for you and for the relationship. This rides all about him. And his mother views it that way too. That's why he is why he is. Maybe she lost a child before him
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reader, AllisonDro +, writes (15 August 2009):
well, personally, i have zero tolerance for any kind of porn. just my personal belief and i know not everyone agrees with me, but i think it is hurtful. i would ask him that very question: "why do you feel the need to look at other girls?" if it really hurts you when he does that, he should care and he should stop. communicate that to him
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reader, misztoria +, writes (15 August 2009):
 Is he just looking at poster or is he making eyes at other women? Guys are visual creatures so don't be upset that he has a wandering eye. If he's wandering around than that's a problem. You don't want him talking to other women in front of you, that's a bad sign. Sounds like he's just being a normal guy though. You've only been together for 3 months so if he is a good guy he won't be looking at posters much longer, he'll grow up eventually. Guys mature much slower than women so give him time. Good luck hun!
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