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*mber08k
writes:My husband's ex-wife won't let me see my step daughter when he leaves for boot camp (army) what can I do about it?
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 You could try talking to her one to one but she may not want to talk to you. I suppose it depends on the circumstances. If you two got together whilst he was still with his ex then that could explain her actions. If not it could be that she is jealous, I know when my ex first got a girlfriend the kids would could home and talk about for hours as though she was the best thing since sliced bread and it used to hurt me although I never let them know. I even allowed her to have them for tea once a week if he worked away. Unfortunately in our case this didnt last and she was only trying to impress their dad and has since been an evil b**ch towards my kids.
Legally you have no rights and if you talk to her and she still says no then tell her your respect her decision and let it go for now x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 If I understand this right, your husband is going away with the Army and his daughter, who lives with you, will now be living with her mother. While he's away, the ex-wife won't let you see the girl.
Sorry: there's nothing you can do. The ex-wife is sort of abusing her rights as mother. She is ignoring that the girl has a relationship with you. She's hurting her daughter as well, but, no one will stand up for you.
Just wait for better times to come. I wish I could say something else.
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