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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help, my boyfriend has just admitted that he thought he might be gay this summer. I found chat logs of him talking to men and web-camming with gay men on the internet. He says that it was just a phase and that he loves me, which i totally believe as well but I don't see how someone can just think for a while that they might be gay but then change their mind? We have been together for 1yr and 6months and have always had amazing sex but I don't really know what to think and if I can trust him or not...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): He has basically told me that he's had these feelings for a while and this summer has actually confronted them finally and the only way he knew how was to talk to men via the internet. He said that he has now finally sorted his head out and that, cheesey as it sounds, turning 21 and doing this has helped him realise who he is as a person and that its me that he really wants.
To me this sounds very truthful and plausible but I need someone elses opinion! Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): Changing his mind could just be denial. Chances are if anything he is bisexual as I'm gay and there is no way I could manage to have sex with any woman for a year and a half.
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reader, supermum +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Of course you can!!!! a lot of people go through a 'gay phase' when they are questioning their sexuality, testing the waters and working out what they like. He may have logged on to these sites, only to realise that its not for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): as hard as this sounds it sounds to me as though he is in denail, i dont doubt that he does love you, but he is trying to convince himself as much as you... i dont think you can go thru phases with your sexuality, you are wat you are. Best thing for you to do is to end the relationship, and to try and help him, it must be a very daunting thing for him.
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