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writes:How to survive an affair?My husband and I have been married for 16 years. About one year ago, after a very tough period together, I found out he was having an affair and had been for atleast a year with a woman who had worked for him previously. I had been told about the affair by an ex employee. When I asked him about it, he denied everything and told me I was crazy, he eventually admitted the affair and we were separated for 5 months. I was ready to move on without him until he started calling me to say what a mistake he'd made. We have two children together and I have been trying to make things work for about a year. I still feel betrayed and don't know what to do.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Of course you feel betrayed...YOU WERE. Sure he's sorry, sorry he's was caught, he didn't fess up on his own he was turned in. Maybe a marriage counselor can help you with this awful situation. What was he doing during the 5 month separation while you were trying to keep things together for your children? Whatever you decide to do make sure it's what YOU want and what's best for YOU, not what anybody else wants or says they need, especially Mr."when time are tough I think with my dick". Good luck honey, I hate reading posts like this.
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reader, paradise +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Sorry you are faced with this issue. I suggest that you seek counseling in order to vent your feelings, then perhaps your husband will be brought into these sessions somewhere down the road, as determined by a reputable therapist. It sounds like your marriage is worth saving, however, you need to get past his affair as well as determine why it happened to begin with, as an affair is a sign of trouble in the marriage. Good luck!!
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