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writes:I met my boyfriend on holiday and it was amazing. i thought that it would just be a holiday romance but we both wanted it continue afterwards. he lives about 2 hours away. we have been going out for a month now. we really dont get to see eachother very often because we both lead very busy lifestyles. we text eachother everyday but never talk on the phone. can anyone give me any tips on how to keep it exiting and him still wanting me???? i am really worried he will just get bored coz to be honest i am begining to. But when i am with him it is AMAZING!!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 September 2008):
Well the first thing you can start to do is call eachother.
Then there is Skype (free phone pver the internet) web cam, email, and don't forget letters!
Getting a letter is brilliant.
To be honest if you are getting bored after a month then you may just be postponing the inevitable.
Sometimes you just have to accept that although the feelings are right, the timing is not. If you two split up on a high then you leave the door open to get back together when you are older and can travel to see eachother or get a job in the same town. If you let it drag out then you'll just end up hating eachother.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (8 September 2008):
 look as good as this is it cannot last if your age is 13 to 15 as two hours away costs money you dont have at this point to meet ends make. of course its amazing it like having a treat once in a while. were you together longer you would have a more accurate understanding of how you really see things but if your bored of the situation find something closer to home and write to him as a friend on the net rather than texting as its cheaper.
to be honest i have lost touch with people i loved as i moved in one way and they another its called globalisation and its a pain but get used to it cos its here to stay.
you will be fine though so dont worry...
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