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writes:ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get pregnant,she would have a relationship with me and would love me? am i being played or what? she says she cares deeply for me but wont even be my girlfriend.she says she is so confused and doesnt know what she wants,should i just give up an move on???
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 September 2008):
Yep I think you need to move on. Tell her that you want a girlfriend and that you are not going to get that while she is with you.
She obviously likes you as a really good friend, but just want's a sex friend at the moment.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Hi,
it sounds like she has serious trust issues, or she is hiding something from you.
It really is hard to tell, but you have to either find out what she really wants or put yourself back out there. This will eventually do your head in , if she is unable to commit then there is little future between you two.
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reader, lilla  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Ok, this doesn't make any sense. If she doesn't want to be your gf, why go on and on about how perfect you would be. Or she would love you only in certain circumstances like getting pregnant(God forbid). If I were you I would step back a little and keep a straight head, because if you are fond of her, you can get easily hurt. If you can handle no strings sex, well and good. But there are feelings from your end otherwise you wouldn't be writing here. Have you ever asked her what would happen if she met another guy? Are you the "back bencher" she falls back on?
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