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writes:basically i started talking to a guy on the internet just over a month ago. we really clicked straight away and would speak for twelve hours at a time. after a couple of weeks we also started with phone conversations and he seemed really into me, he'd drop constant hints about liking me. after a month of phone conversations and online chats we met up and hung out for a few days. nothing happened, except for one night when we got really close and he looked as though he was about to kiss me on a few occasions but didnt. a friend of his that we met up with thought we were a couple and said she could sense the sexual tension and he did always want to get close to me. after we went our seperate ways i wasnt able to get on the internet. i phoned him and we spoke for a little while but he told me to call him back later. when i did his phone was off and i kept trying with no hope. i knew that a couple of days later his friend was coming to stay with him so i didnt want to pester him while his friend was there. we havent spoken in over a week now, and i'm getting worried that hes gone off me and doesnt want to speak anymore. im really confused! he showed that he did like me but after we met we stopped communicating.the other thing is theres another girl who he hung out with for a few days a couple of weeks before we met, i dont know if anything happened between the two but i realise hes been talking to her as he did me and calling her the same nicknames etc. he mentioned her a few times when we were hanging out too... it could be a possibility hes into her instead?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Yes, I guess there is a possibility that he's with another girl. Frankly, if he hasn't been in touch with you, then he's showing that he's not interested in you. Sorry, but the only thing you can do right now is wait to see if you hear from him.
There may be some other explanation for why he hasn't contacted you, a family emergency or medical issue, so there may be hope still.
But if it were me in your shoes, I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about why he's not contacting me. I'd be getting on with things and trying not to pine over him. Sounds easier said than done, I know, but honestly, there's not a lot that you can do about it, is there?
Just be a bit wary and cautious of any new guy and try not to hand over your heart too soon.
I hope things work out for you.
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