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writes:A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - and because he was driving 4 hours back home trying to avoid a storm - at least that's what I told myself. Needless-to-say, I haven't heard from him after that call, or the other two calls and IM I've sent him. Obviously, I'm afraid that not only have I blown it as far as any kind of romantic relationship with him, but, also the friendship we were developing as well. Lately I've been making plans to recapture his attention and try instigating a do-over which include a couple of NFL tickets and some of self-improvements (both lifestyle and physical). I really like this man, and really want another chance with him. What I'm wondering is whether there is any way that I can fix this blunder or if the damage is done, forever? And, if there is any hope of a do-over,do my plans seem plausible or are there any other suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 September 2008):
 I still wouldn't contact him. He'll call if he is interested. I think if you do you'll really blow it if you haven't already. Maybe he just needs some time, you can only hope.
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reader, pattrae +, writes (8 September 2008):
pattrae is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I wasn't clear enough. I did sleep with him - that's not what I regret. I regret calling him first and want to hit the "reset button".
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 September 2008):
If it's only about a phone call and a couple texts then I guess the ball is in his court and he'll get back to you if he is interested. I wouldn't contact him again or you'll come across as needy and desperate. Wait and see.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 September 2008):
The title says you slept with him but your post just mentions a phone call, which is it? Makes a difference.
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reader, pattrae +, writes (8 September 2008):
pattrae is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIn my situation I regret calling him first and too soon, not connecting with him.
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