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*im 18
writes:hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex with 2 other lads i dont no where hes got this from or y he thinks its true when its not i told him i didnt do it but he thinks im lying so i told him that its over then because if he dosent trust me then wots the point. wot i want to no is if i did the right thing in ending it cuz i do really like him and miss not seeing him and talking to him so any help any one can give would be great thanx. xx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (8 September 2008):
 if you really do love him then help him over his problems it will be hard i have them my self but my bf helps me alot telling me he loves me and that he is with me because he wants to and not for what he can get.. that is a route you can go down or walk away ans be a friend for him..but he needs to respect you and if he cant trust you either then you are to be friends or nothing..it seems hes letting his problems rule him rather than listening to his head and heart and going with the negative. GOOD LUCK APHEXY xxxx
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reader, kim 18 +, writes (8 September 2008):
kim 18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx aphexinfinite for the help iv already did all of that and didnt make things better i think he dosent no how to trust cuz all his gf in the past have used and cheated him and he think i did the same he said that if i wasnt sleeping with him i had to be sleeping with some one else the only reason why i am still worred about this is because he says he loves me and we have bin friends for about 2 yrs i dont wanna just walk away.
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reader, ThomasP  +, writes (8 September 2008):
Kim, you did the right thing. Some of the more important things in relationships are trust and respect. If he does not believe you would not act in that matter and you also would lie about it, he does not have much respect for you. Also, if he is playing that song just two months into the relationship he is only going to get worse. Keep your self respect and save yourself a lot of headaches down the road and keep him on the curve.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (8 September 2008):
trust is an essential part of a relationship and if it is not their it can lead to a unhealthy relationship..you can either talk to him about it and try and repair the fault but at the end of the day if their is no trust then their is no respect..try and talk with him about it see if it can be resolved but if not the direction your walking is the right one.. thats my opinion anyway good luck with your choices hugs aphexy xx
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reader, supermum +, writes (8 September 2008):
 There cant be a relationship wothout trust babe, yes you did the right thing. Who does he think he is accusing you of things you have'nt done? Move on and you can find sum1 hu deserves you.all the best babe
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