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I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

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Question - (8 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 better than me and will start to leave me to go out in town with his friend. What should i do?

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A female reader, littlemomma United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

littlemomma agony auntI understand what your going through. Sometimes I still worry that my husband will leave me for his ex. But the best thing you can do, is relax and trust him. I know it aint easy, and sometimes you'll still think about it...but the more time goes by and your relationship expands, the less it will happen. Just trust him

Hope I helped...good luck!

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A female reader, 05hughesk United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2008):

05hughesk agony auntI know how you feel hun.. you've just got to learn to trust them .. just dont worry about it.. and if it does get to a point were you are worrying to much then just let him no how you feel .. a relationship is based of honesty .. if he's a decent lad he will understand x !

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2008):

kenny agony auntStop worrying and thinking negative things that may never happen. You have been with him for a year now, if he did not want to be with you he would leave. Just because he is 2 years older than you does not mean he is going to find someone better, and if he wants to go out in town with his friend does not mean he is aiming to find someone else. I think you are focusing your energies into negative aspects of this relationship and are ultimately driving yourself up the wall with worry. Focus on the positive things, the good things, if you do this positive things will materialise for you.

All the best x

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