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writes:I've been engaged for a few months now and my fiance stays in another town. I love with all my heart and I am looking forward to our future together. There is however one issue that worries me. She has the tendency of lying about issues both small and big particularly about her past. I haven't spoken to her about it as I am scared I may upset her but nevertheless it still bothers me. Our wedding is a few months away and soon she'll be moving to my home town. Any advice on how to deal with this issue?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Yes dont get married yet! If you seriously cant ask her due to not wanting to upset her, i dont think your communication is too good? Just a guess. But why would anyone marry someone that lies. And i expect if she lies about big and small things, she is most likely a compulsive liar. But unless you delve a little deeper, you wont know and you will have to either decide if you can be married to someone that likes their secrets or sort it out soon?
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Hiyya.
Maybe she lies about it because she can't face the truth. Maybe when you are married and settle down she will un cover the truth about her past. It may be very upsetting and doesnt want you to know what really happeend. To be honest i cant really say because i dont know what she has saidd but it seems to me she is very brittle and could not be able to handle it.
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