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writes:It's kind of a long post, but I really have no clue what hes thinking and how i'm feeling, because i'm so confused at the moment.Okay, well.. In May 2008 I started dating this guy in my school, I knew him for a year before because he was new, and he liked me back and that's been the FIRST guy who has actually liked me, so I was pretty happy.Anyways, we dated. (I'm 15, he's 16) but we didn't date OFFICIALLY he was dating this other girl and keeping his options open, I already knew that and so I wasn't expecting to go any further with him until I was sure I was the only girl in his life and it didn't bother me because many people like to keep their options open.So we dated and in June i had an injury, was in a cast and I still am. Long story short, things didn't work out between us because he wasn't on MSN, we were not able to speak on the phone and he couldn't come over in case my mother suspected anything, although he did come and visit me once.He also went on holiday for 3 weeks and we drifted and it didn't work out between us, a week later I found out he asked that other girl he was dating to be his girlfriend and claimed that he loved her.We didn't speak after that and I'm now back in school and there is a weird tension and he did say 'this is past us and its forgotten' but he's still weird, today was the first day back and in the playground I saw him looking at me a lot but he tried to sly it out and pretend he wasn't and in class I sit next to him because thats how the seats are layed out, but today he moved away from me and he didn't look in my direction but he did look at me about 3 times during the class.However, he speaks to ALL of my friends and says hello but he just didn't speak to me at all.Hes 16. I don't know how his mind works.What do you think, does he genuinely not like me as a friend, is he uncomfortable, is he intimidated.I really have no clue.Thanks.
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reader, ask lizzie +, writes (8 September 2008):
 hiya
i totally understand where your coming from, boys can be really confusing when it come to relationships. You don't have to go with my advise but, i think he is just unconfitable. Why don't you give it a wile and if he is still acting strange y don't you ask 1 of your friends to talk to him. And if he doesn't want to know, witch i am sure he probably does, don't worry there's plenty more fish in the sea you just have to wait and love will find you.
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reader, Chippymunk  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 I'm sure there are reasons for his akwardness around you. He may be "weird" around you because he might not know how you feel about him or the situation. He may think that you hate him or have a grudge against him because he chose another girl over you. So he might just be waiting for you to make the first move in case you are angry or something. If you have put the past behind you and want to be friends with him, try talking to him first to let him know you're not angry. You don't have to bring the subject up but just talk to him like a friend and eventually he'll feel comfortable around you again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPS: my friends also said there is a lot of tension and he may feel uncomfortable but he is the one that said we can be friends again and he is the one who left me, so I don't understand how he can be uncomfortable?
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